“That is when we got the works,” she said. “The works was nothing more than cold cuts, Italian bread, a banana and a soda, but she made everything an adventure.”
As an adult working with church youth programs, Medley saw some youngsters who lacked good manners and kitchen know-how. So earlier this month, she left a 19-year career in finance to launch Classy Kids Cook. Medley hopes to find a storefront in Clayton once her business grows. “The motive behind all this is I want children to realize they don’t need to compromise any area of their lives,” she said. “If I can help them build a good sense of accomplishment and a good sense of self-esteem, it will transfer to other areas of their lives. They will be more apt to say ‘No’ or ‘I value myself more than what you are asking me to do’ when they are being asked to compromise an area in their life.”
For her classes, Medley sorts her young charges by age. She then asks about food allergies and food likes and dislikes. With the youngest children, Medley sticks to cooking basics and kitchen safety. Older students learn how to make gourmet meals, create menus and factor costs. “I try to let them be creative,” Medley said of the cooking. “It’s theirs. It’s their business. It’s their cooking item.” On the etiquette side, Medley teaches the importance of good manners. The students are not allowed to speak unless they are invited into the conversation. If they need to talk, the students must say, “Excuse me,” and wait to be acknowledged. Throughout the course, parents report on how their children are incorporating Medley’s lessons into their daily lives. At the end of the course, the student with the best report gets a reward. “They walk away knowing more than they walked in with,” Medley said. “They are feeling good about themselves because they have accomplished something that is delicious or beautiful.” Classy Kids Cook is available for birthday parties, tea parties, family events, home-school classes and corporate team-building functions.
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